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National Decency Day

National Decency Day is the kind of day that rewards a little intention and a lot of heart.

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Friday, May 14Every year on May 14

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Roots: Established in 2019 by Lisa Cholnoky
Vibe: Promoting a culture of respect and understanding.
Also on May 14: Buttermilk Biscuit Day · Dance Like a Chicken Day · Underground America Day
Hashtag: #NationalDecencyDay

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Ways to celebrate

Small, doable ways to celebrate National Decency Day.

Do one small thing that makes the day feel marked.
Tell someone what you're celebrating and why.
Share a post, a photo, or a memory connected to it.
Make a tiny tradition — something you could do again next year.
Let it be simple. Not every celebration has to be a production.

Make it your kind of celebration

Family
Do one small thing together that everyone will remember.
Kids
Turn it into a craft, a story, or a snack — meet them where they are.
Couples
Use the day as an excuse for a little intentional time together.
Office
Acknowledge the day in the team chat or at a stand-up. Small, sincere, fast.
School
Anchor a short lesson or activity around the day.
Community
Share, volunteer, or donate to make the day mean something locally.
Just me
Celebrate quietly and completely. One person can still mark a day.

Plan ahead

National Decency Day is observed on May 14 every year. Here is where it lands for the next ten years, handy for planners, marketers and party people.

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Fast facts

Most Americans believe civility is important.

Acts of kindness can increase happiness.

The story

National Decency Day was established to address the growing concerns of incivility in public discourse and personal interactions. It serves as a call to action for individuals and communities alike to foster a culture of respect and kindness. The day encourages people to engage in thoughtful conversations and to consider the impact of their words and actions on others.

Read the full story

The day was established in 2019 by New York City graphic designer Lisa Cholnoky, continuing a dialogue she began two years earlier to bring decency back into everyday conversations and actions. This day invites everyone to reflect on their behavior and take steps toward creating a more civil environment.

One of the core messages of National Decency Day is that simple acts of kindness can lead to significant changes in our communities. Whether through compliments, supportive gestures, or simply listening to others, individuals can make a profound difference. The day encourages everyone to be proactive in their kindness, spreading positivity wherever possible.

As we celebrate National Decency Day, we are reminded of the profound impact civility can have on our interactions and society as a whole. Engaging with others respectfully not only improves our own lives but also uplifts those around us. This day calls for a collective effort to inspire decency in all aspects of life, from personal relationships to public forums.

Did you know?

Impact of Kindness

Studies show that performing acts of kindness can significantly boost one’s mood and overall happiness.

Civility in History

Throughout history, movements advocating for civility have aimed to create more equitable societies.

Civility and Politics

Political discourse often benefits from a focus on decency, leading to more productive discussions.

Global Day of Kindness

Internationally, many countries have their own days dedicated to celebrating kindness and decency.

Children and Kindness

Teaching children about decency helps cultivate future generations committed to respectful interactions.

Decency in Media

Media outlets have started to emphasize the importance of respectful reporting to enhance public discourse.

Civility and Health

Research suggests that respectful interactions can reduce stress and promote mental well-being.

Around the world

Every culture celebrates a little differently.

USUnited StatesNational Decency Day is celebrated across the country, encouraging citizens to embrace civility.
CACanadaCanadian communities also recognize the importance of decency in fostering inclusive environments.
GBUnited KingdomIn the UK, discussions about civility often parallel those in the U.S., highlighting a global need for respect.
AUAustraliaAustralians celebrate kindness and respect in daily life, aligning with the sentiments of National Decency Day.
NZNew ZealandIn New Zealand, initiatives promoting kindness reflect a similar ethos to National Decency Day.
DEGermanyGerman communities engage in dialogues about civility, recognizing its role in a harmonious society.